Embracing a Healthier Lifestyle Two-Gether!

I realize it has been a while since I have posted a blog. Even though I have not posted, we have been running and have some great accomplishments to share (I will be updating my blog over the next month or so).

During this post I wanted to share with you how David and I worked together to change our eating habits and thus our overall lifestyle so that we can enjoy many wonderful and healthy years ahead together.

About a month ago, we both realized that it was time to make some changes. Even though we had been exercising we both felt sluggish, over weight, not focused and just plain not engaged with each other as much as we had in the past. It seemed as though we fell into the same rut that we have talked about in the past due to the pressures from work and the constant interruptions from technology.

One morning I was sitting in bed and came across an article on the “Bone Broth Diet” http://bonebrothdietbook.com/revolution. I found it to be quite interesting especially since I have always struggled with immune system problems and it seemed like this diet was targeted at reducing inflammation throughout the body. Although I had not had any large breakouts from my immune disorder for over a year it seemed as though I was constantly taking Tums and just did not feel right. I felt it was time for a change.  David had been exercising quite a bit but was not seeing as much progress as far a losing weight and getting his blood pressure and cholesterol under control as he would have liked to see. After explaining the diet to him and the fact that it was only a three-week commitment we decided to try it out and STICK to it Together!

I spent a good two days making the bone broth for our three-week diet.   I never thought it would be so hard to find bones! I went to many butchers and they said that they gave their bones to some other company. The bones that were available for sale in the grocery stores were pretty high priced. I was continually wondering how I was going to even begin this if I could not find the bones! We had a great time together searching for bones. I am sure you can imagine the conversations we had (I actually laughing as I am typing these words). I finally found a bunch of chicken feet (lots of great cartilage) in a local store and mixed these with the carcasses of chicken and turkey. With these bones and the beef bones I was able to make enough broth to last the entire three weeks. Actually still have a great deal of broth left today!

The Bone Broth Diet Book continually talks about all the stages one will go through as they move through the three-week diet. I will have to say that the only tough part of this was the “fasting” days. The other days were pretty easy, although energy levels were low due to low calorie consumption. The biggest challenge for us at the beginning was not having our wine. David and I typically have a glass or 2 of wine about 4 evenings a week. During winter many of our special times together are spent sitting by the fire with a glass of wine watching our favorite TV Shows like the Walking Dead. We decided that during this three-week period we would try different types of hot tea together in replacement of wine. We actually enjoyed this and now have become quite accustomed to having tea together in the evenings as opposed to wine every other night.

During the diet you are not supposed to weigh yourself accept at the beginning and at the end. David and I are both very different as far as following these types of rules. David likes to see the changes and the effects of the change immediately and I prefer to just wait until the end. I have been on diets before and no progress day after day makes me anxious and therefore I typically just give up. Given this, David was receiving positive reinforcement daily with the weight loss he was experiencing. I just kept focused on the goal of changing my eating habits over the three week period.

We were successful! We made it through the three weeks and have completely transformed the way we will eat going forward. After completion of the three-week diet we no longer crave bread, chips, sweets, grains or any of the high glycemic foods that impact our bodies in negative ways. As runners we always thought that we had to have carbohydrates to fuel our bodies during our training and our marathons. After going through this change from high carbohydrate diet to a low carbohydrate/high protein diet we have more energy than we have ever had in the past even while running! We have made many new choices for food consumption together. David now substitutes carrots for wheat thins (wondering if he will be able to give up his eye glasses..haha). We both no longer eat bread with our meals. If we have a hamburger or turkey burger we either have it on a lettuce wrap or without a bun. We have breakfast together every morning (something we have not done in the past) consisting of eggs, sausage or bacon. We no longer crave or need toast (even to dip in our egg yolk- boy I never thought I would see this day!). We still drink the bone broth soup. I have modified it into a chili type soup now by incorporating fire roasted tomatoes and tomato paste into the broth. This will probably remain a consistent part of our diet as we move forward as it brings many benefits to help eliminate inflammation throughout the body.

The beauty of all of this is that we have changed together. Yes, we both lost weight. David lost 18 pounds and I lost 9. A week after the diet our weight remains consistent while our muscle mass continues to increase as we burn fat as opposed to carbohydrate. It is so amazing to look at each other and see the transformation we have made together in body, mind and soul. It truly puts a smile on my face.

Individually making this lifestyle change would have been difficult if not next to impossible at best. Doing this together, supporting each other throughout the change, made it not only doable but also enjoyable. Now that we are sharing the same eating habits and exercise habits there is a higher likelihood that we will continue to embrace this new lifestyle together throughout the coming years. We truly had fun embarking on this journey together!

Life is so much better sharing every moment with someone you love.


Napa Valley Marathon Completed- Overcoming Adversity Two-Gether!

NapaValleyfor Blog Completing the Napa Valley Marathon together definitely demonstrated that if you set your mind to anything you can accomplish it!   Although we did not prepare and train the way we normally would for a marathon (typically 16 weeks of training) we were able to overcome adversities (including weather, work, and demands on our time) and challenges during training as well as on marathon day to once again, cross the finish line two-gether! We travelled to Napa Valley on Friday, February 27th and spent Saturday visiting the Expo as well as Hanna Winery with my sister Kathy and her husband Mike. It was a gorgeous day with temperatures in the mid 60’s – a perfect day for outdoor wine tasting! It was also a great break from the winter weather we have been having back in Nashville this year! That evening we decided to eat early and therefore took advantage of the Pasta Dinner provided by the Marathon. It had everything we needed to carb load and had quite a variety of pasta and desserts. After the dinner – we were ready to get to bed early and rest up for the big day. Marathon Day We woke up at 4 am to a frigid morning with temperatures around 37 degrees. We went through our usual routine of getting ready and headed over to the high school to catch the shuttle bus to the start line up to Calistoga. We had the opportunity the day before to take this same ride in the daylight so we had a glimpse of what the elevation was going to be like as we ran from Calistoga back down to Napa Valley. We arrived at Calistoga about an hour early and luckily were able to stay on the bus to keep warm until about 10 minutes before race start.   The race start was surrounded by grape vines which immediately put us in the environment we would experience all day as we ran throughout the Napa Valley Wine Region. Don’t Ever Change Your Training Prior To a Marathon ! I have been told this several times however the week before the marathon I decided to try something different. I wanted to run faster and therefore started to read up on the elite runners and their form and running styles, etc. I read that most great runners ran at about 180 steps per minute (SPM) and that you should as a runner strive for a high spm between 170-180.   I reviewed my spm over the past year or two years from the data collected on my Garmin watch and found out that my average was around 140-150 spm. So I thought to myself, “What if I can just improve by 10 spm before the marathon?” So for my training the week before the marathon I tried increasing my spm (shorter steps) for my 3 mile training runs. I actually found it to be quite enjoyable and found that it took less energy than my normal stride. I also found that my heart rate stayed lower than normal therefore I must not have been exerting as much energy as I had with my normal stride. My stride over that week increased to about 164 average spm, gaining about 10 spm. I was excited to see this improvement and decided that I would try this out on marathon day. The Problem– Remember, I ran 3 miles (5 times that week) doing about 160 spm. I did not move into my normal stride after that as I ended my exercise at 3 miles each day. As I started out on Marathon day with the 160 spm stride I realized rather quickly that I was not going to be able to keep up that stride. Changing your stride takes a lot of practice and a lot of time to re-train your body. So when I figured out that I would not be able to keep up with that stride – a little bit after mile 1, I decided to move back into my normal stride. Guess what? My body did not know what to do. It did not know how to get back into my normal stride because for the past week all I did was the smaller stride. Big Problem! My feet hit the road hard as I tried to get back into stride (runners were looking at me wondering why I was running so funny and making so much noise). The energy that I expelled to try to get back in stride was overwhelming, my breathing became very erratic, and my mental state was really going downhill quickly. Remember, we were not allowed to wear headphones in this race – so when I hit my problems, I was very concerned that I would not make the finish and I was vocal about it. David heard me and decided to run a bit in front of me to give me a target to run after and so he would not hear my negative comments about not finishing. He also knows that I like to work through my running issues by myself at times. I have to do this on my own at my own pace. I have always succeeded in getting through my issues and yes I am negative for a bit (I am working on this) but always manage to pull myself out of it. I knew that if I did not get back into my regular stride, I would not be able to complete the marathon. The way I was currently running was already impacting my body in a negative way and would end up doing some serious damage to my legs within the next 6 miles if I did not get it fixed. I knew that there was a high likelihood that I would not even make it to mile 13. I continued to struggle for a couple more miles. At four miles I was able to start to move into stride but my left foot (front of foot) was scraping on the ground every time I put that foot forward. I struggled for a good 1.2 mile with this until about mile 5 when I fell! My shoe scuffed on the ground and took my whole body down! I hit pretty hard and felt the impact mainly on my knees. I knew that I would probably be bleeding or have some damage but I also knew that I had lost some time through all this and just needed to get up and get running. David did not know that I fell as he was in front of me and I picked myself up rather quickly. He was surprised later on when I told him because he was continually looking back at me to make sure I was making it okay (he was only about 50 feet in front of me). One girl stopped and asked me if I had new shoes. She had been running by me the entire way and heard the noise my feet were making from trying to get back into normal stride. I explained to her that I was stupid and tried to change my stride the week before.  After falling I was scared to keep running and I will tell you that my mental state was the worst it had been in a long time. I did not think that I would be able to break out of this bad form that I was currently in. But I DID. I cannot tell you exactly at what point I was able to get back into stride. I remember David saying after our first 3 that we needed to get back into pace as we were way behind our time that we were targeting. As I started to focus more on the 5min run/1 min walk my body started to just started to get back into form.   Thank Goodness! David and I were back running side by side by about mile 7 and I was feeling much better about the run in general. After we were past 13 (at 2: 40) my mental state started to take a much more positive turn as I felt good about coming in at that time for the half when we were targeting 2:30. From mile 13 to mile 17 we kept up the 5/1 pace.  From mile 17 on we went into a mode where we walked, ran, walked ran in shorter increments with each mile coming in at about a 12.9 minute pace. At about mile 18, David saw a runner drop a plastic card on the road and continue running. David decided to pick it up and sprint up to her to return it. While that was a nice gesture, when he turned around to find me, I saw the pain on his face. Especially when he figured out it was a hotel room key that she probably could have just replaced anyway. At another point, we stopped to use the restroom – David said just run ahead as soon as you are done and I’ll catch up. When he caught up to me, he remarked, I didn’t think you’d be able to get that far away, that was tough catching back up with you! Maybe that was a much needed break because I really did increase my pace at that point. At one point we followed this runner that had a pace announcer on and told us what pace we were all running at. David told me that we need to stay close to him if we were going to make it in on time. So we ran by him for a good two miles or so. Funny thing is we ended up passing him at some point and never saw him the rest of the race.   I had also fumbled with my watch trying to change my intervals from 5/1 to 3/1 which entirely messed up my watch and wiped all intervals out. From this point on it was all about running as much as our bodies would allow us and David was the one who kept us on track to insure that we finished on time. I had no clue as to the time and I did not want to know. In fact, I asked David at one point how we were doing and what time we would get and he replied – let’s get to Mile 20 and I’ll tell you. I forgot about it for a while and when I asked again – by then we were at mile 23. That time David smiled at me and said “you are doing fine and we are going to make it under the required time – now all that is left is to see how much under the time we will be. Let’s just run as much as we can – but don’t hurt ourselves.” We crossed a bridge at mile 23 and there were some very friendly people waiting on the other side with little cups of sorbet. Wow as that good! It was getting pretty warm by that time and the sorbet definitely hit the spot. Thank you Oak Knoll Inn for the great Sorbet! Another important thing that volunteers at the marathon provided were bananas and orange slices. I can’t recall at which mile markers they were at – but we had them at 3 or 4 stops. They helped tremendously as well. The last three miles were very pleasant and we really had the opportunity to enjoy them together.  There were several photographers along this portion and we hammed it up each time, running vigorously (at least in front of the cameraJ). During these last three miles, David did have some lower back pain and now we had traded places somewhat. I was there to encourage him and make sure he knew we were going to make it together.   It was now my turn to run/walk a bit ahead of him to give him the target to run after. This continues to work for both of us. I kept communicating with him to make sure he was okay and he replied that I should just keep going as fast as I could and he would make it. It’s funny how we both play our roles at different parts of these marathons – but two-gether we always make it! About a block from the finish line, we could hear the spectators cheering. One of the best feelings in the world is hearing the announcer saying as we were approaching the finish line together “Here comes David and Cynthia Hanna of Murfreesboro, Tennessee – you may know of them as Two-Gether Runners” and the announcer went on to talk about us for a few minutes and even gave out our website address. This is one of the moments that made all the training and time spent working towards this goal all worth it.   We finished the race in 5:46 making it in prior to the 6 hour cut-off! I cannot say enough about the staff and volunteers at that Napa Valley Marathon. This was an extremely well organized event that took safety very seriously. From the point that we were informed about the regulation to not wear headphones to seeing the many medical aid stations along the course as well as having all the law enforcement along the course making sure we were okay– we felt very comfortable that we were being looked after during this run.   Thank you Napa Valley Marathon – we truly enjoyed it. Memories:

  • All of the support and publicity from Mark Winitz and the Napa Valley Marathon! – Thank you Mark!
  • Spending time with my sister and brother in-law before the marathon at Hanna Winery- Thanks Ted at Hanna Winery for making our day a special day!
  • Keeping warm on the bus and hoping that they don’t make us get off and stand in the cold for an hour- Thank you Napa Valley Marathon!
  • Beautiful Scenery throughout the marathon course- We have never experienced such a beautiful course!
  • The challenges put before us and the ability to figure out how to overcome them together!
  • Having each other’s support the entire way!
  • Great fueling stations- especially the sorbet- Thanks to Oak Knoll Inn!
  • Realizing at mile 23 that I had not thought about missing my music the entire marathon until David said something about headphones.  I looked at him and laughed and said “I did not even think about this the entire race- is that not crazy?”  I guess my mind had other things to worry about!
  • Wearing our medals to the wineries after the marathon and sharing our stories with others!
  • Once Again, Crossing the Finish Line Holding Hands TWO-GETHER!

We highly recommend this Marathon to anyone considering running a marathon. It is a great beginner’s marathon and is well organized! It does fill up early so you will need to register early! Registration is now open- http://napavalleymarathon.org/ [CH1]<